who I Am and how i can help you
I’m michelle shahbazyan, your life coach and strategist. I help high-achieving singles and couples break old patterns, master their mindset, and create relationships that transform every area of life—for generations to come.
With two Master’s degrees—one in Psychology and another in Building Construction and Facility Management—and over 15 years of experience, I bring a practical, results-driven approach to coaching. Trained as a Marriage and Family Therapist, I focus on action, transformation, and real-world results.
I’ve guided thousands of clients worldwide—from executives to couples—to gain clarity, confidence, and fulfillment in love, life, and career. I specialize in overcoming anxiety, ADHD, heartbreak, grief, career crossroads, and the invisible patterns that hold you back. Using insights from neuroscience, behavioral biology, psychology, and anthropology, I give strategies that are both smart and immediately actionable.
When you work with me, it’s interactive, transformative, and tailored to your life. You’ll leave each session with a clear plan, actionable steps, and the confidence to make real change happen. I speak English, Farsi, and Armenian.
If you’re ready to stop settling, start strategizing, and win at love and life, I’m here to guide you. Let’s build the extraordinary life and relationships you deserve—starting today.
My Mission
I’m on a mission to revolutionize the way people approach life and love. I help couples break destructive patterns, build deep connection, and create relationships that are healthy, functional, and built to last. This isn’t just about making two people happy—it’s about generating ripple effects of peace, clarity, and fulfillment that touch everyone in their lives. My goal is to make intentional, transformative love the new standard, so thriving relationships become the foundation for families, communities, and generations to come.
My story so far
Born in the San Fernando Valley of Los Angeles in 1982, when it was still a badass place to live. Married, mom of two, and have lived in four U.S. states to date. Currently in Arizona for anyone who’s curious. I’ve explored over a dozen countries—learning, connecting, and growing along the way. I speak English, Farsi, and Armenian, and I use every connection to create meaningful impact.
I give back fiercely. I’ve donated 12 inches of my hair to Locks of Love, twice. Before I had kids and understood what it meant to be busy, I used to love volunteering with Tree People because I like someone making sure what I plant will actually grow, not because I think we should get rid of really fast amazing gas powered cars. (See my instagram page to check out what I do on weekends.) Yoga has been my anchor for 25+ years, sharpening focus, discipline, and presence—the same tools I bring to my clients.
Since 2010, I’ve helped high-achievers, executives, and couples crush old patterns, gain clarity, and build extraordinary love and lives that leave a ripple effect. I move fast, think sharp, and demand real results—from myself and my clients. I don’t just help people find clarity—I help them rewrite the rules of their love life. Coffee in hand, chaos in check, and always ready for the next breakthrough. Let’s cut through the noise and create the love life you deserve.
Stop waiting. Start winning. Own your life.
In your first session, you’ll get clarity, actionable strategies, and a roadmap to start transforming your life—no guesswork, no wasted time.
Book your complimentary 15-minute consultation or your first intensive session today.
You can reach me by phone, text, email, or through my contact form.
my Academic & Professional Edge
Master of Arts in Psychology with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy - Phillips Graduate Institute
Master of Science in Building Construction and Facility Management - Georgia Institute of Technology
Special coursework in Anthropology, Neuroscience, and Behavioral Biology - Emory University
Bachelor of Science in Applied Psychology - Georgia Institute of Technology
Results-Backed Expertise: I’m trained and certified to tackle the real challenges life throws at you: Aging & Long-Term Care, Child & Partner Abuse, Anger Management, Anxiety, Addiction, Social Skills & Violence Prevention for Kids, and Guiding Families Through Complex Dynamics. I turn insights into action so you can break patterns and level up.
a Proven Track Record
Board Member of the Global Association for Interpersonal Neurobiology Studies
Voted Best Life Coach in the Irvine, California for 2024 by Expertise.com Quality Business Awards 10 years in a row!
“Having It All” —Here’s How Women Can Redefine Success on Their Terms According to Relationship and Life Coach Michelle Shahbazyan article on Women’s Journal
How to navigate a friendship breakup article on Mashable
Michelle Shahbazyan on Five Keys To Happy, Lasting Marriages article on Medium.com
The Micropolitics of Family Gift Giving article on The Wall Street Journal
Navigating Wellness: A Mom’s Guide To Sustainable Goals And Personal Boundaries article on The Mommies Reviews
5 ways to survive Thanksgiving in politically divided families article on The Press Enterprise
Click here to read my interview for Shoutout Arizona
Click here to read my Interview for The Houston Voyage for the time I spent in Texas
Click here to read some pointers I gave to Irvine Moms!
Life Coach and Date Coach at Houston Singles
Previously a provider of Neurofeedback
Marriage and Family Therapy Intern in private practice with Diane Lee, LMFT in Pasadena, CA
Marriage and Family Therapy Intern at The Maple Counseling Center in Beverly Hills, CA (specializations in Family Therapy, Couples Counseling, and Adult Individual Therapy)
Marriage and Family Therapy Trainee, Reseda Elementary School supervised by Fereshteh Mazdyasni, LMFT
Manager of Alumni Affairs and MFT Departments, Guest Lecturer, School Counselor through off-site program, Phillips Graduate Institute
Office Manager at a renowned psychiatrist's office in Brentwood, CA
Board Member and Website Manager for The San Gabriel Valley Psychological Association
Board Member and Website Manager for the Cancer Care Network Foundation
Founder and Chief Operations Officer for an international online diamond jewelry and watch company
Project Estimator for Finton Associates, a high-end custom-home builder in Los Angeles, CA
Assistant Project Manager for Beazer Homes in Atlanta, GA
Value Engineering Student Researcher with Dr. Saeid Sadri - Georgia Institute of Technology
Sustainable Construction Design Student Researcher with Dr. Deborah Phillips - Georgia Institute of Technology
Research Assistant, Visual Laboratory, Dr. Paul Corballis - Georgia Institute of Technology
Research Assistant, Primate Behavior - The Atlanta Zoo
Research Assistant, Cognitive Psychology Laboratory, Dr. Terry Maple - Georgia Institute of Technology